The Best and Worst U.S. Cities for Families

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What makes a city family-friendly?

Finding the perfect place to raise your family can be a challenge, from balancing work opportunities and cost of living expenses to finding a community with the amenities you want to enjoy with your kids. Some cities are better equipped for families in each of these areas. To find the best ones, we looked at metrics for the country's 50 most populous cities, using costs related to two different stages of raising kids (toddlers and teens), plus park availability.

    • Parkland as a percentage of city area: Outdoor space is important for kids of all ages. This metric shows accessibility based on how much of the city's square acreage is devoted to public parks.
    • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: We looked at the average cost of toddler center-based care compared to the median family income in each city to see how much you actually have to spend each year. 
    • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: This metric applies to drivers between 16 and 19 years old, because, as any parent of teens will tell you, car insurance premiums can be extremely expensive. 

Read on for the 10 best cities for families, followed by a round-up of the 10 worst cities for comparison. 

The 10 Best U.S. Cities for Families

#1: Birmingham, Alabama

Birmingham is one of the most affordable cities in the country when it comes to childcare. The annual cost of care for a toddler takes up less than 10% of the area's median family income, meaning a higher percentage of earnings can go towards other expenses. Parkland data wasn't available for Birmingham, but car insurance premiums for teens are cheaper compared to the majority of the country. A six-month policy averages just over $2,800.

Birmingham by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: Not available
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 9.4%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $2,813

#2: Raleigh, North Carolina

Raleigh stands out for families with kids who are about to sit behind the driver's wheel. It has the cheapest car insurance for teens in the nation, averaging just $1,660 for a six-month premium. Additionally, childcare costs for toddlers account for 10.7% of median family income. There's not quite as much space devoted to parks as there is in other cities, but you'll still find green areas in 12.5% of the city.

Raleigh by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 12.5%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 10.7%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $1,660

#3: Austin, Texas

Teens in Austin also won't drain their parents' budgets when it comes to car insurance, placing third place for the cheapest premiums. Expect to pay just over $2,300 every six months. Similarly, toddler care in a center takes up just 9.3% of household income. Park space, however, ranks in the bottom half of our list.

Austin by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 9%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 9.3%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $2,313

#4: Nashville, Tennessee

If you have young kids, Nashville is one of the cheapest areas for childcare. Center-based toddler care takes up the lowest percentage of income in the country at just 8.3%. Teen auto insurance premiums are a little pricier at $3,072 for six months. 12% of the city area is devoted to parkland, which is in the top half of the cities we analyzed.

Nashville by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 12%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 8.3%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $3,072

#5: San Jose, California

San Jose balances both costs and outdoor space. A whopping 17% of the city area is home to parkland, placing it in the top 10 nationwide for this category. Toddler care costs come in at just over 11% of median family income, while teen car insurance premiums cost just under $3,000 every six months.

San Jose by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 17%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 11.1%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $2,982

#6: Houston, Texas (tied)

Like Austin, Houston ranks well when it comes to teen driver costs. The average six-month premium is well under $3,000. On top of that, childcare costs for toddlers account for less than 11% of income. Parkland isn't quite as robust as other areas of the country, but it still makes up 12.2% of Houston.

Houston by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 12.2%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 10.8%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $2,710

#6: San Antonio, Texas (tied)

San Antonio doesn't come with a huge percentage of parkland (just 9.1%), but families benefit from cheaper cost of living for kid-specific expenses. Auto insurance premiums are one of the cheapest nationwide at just $2,456 per six months. Similarly, parents with young kids can expect to devote just over 10% of their income to child care costs.

San Antonio by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 9.1%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 10.3%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $2,456

#8: Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania

Pittsburgh families can keep their childcare costs from eating away at too much of their budget, accounting for just 11% of income. Car insurance premiums for teens aren't the cheapest, but still remain below $3,000. Pittsburgh also has a fair amount of parkland, accounting for 12.6% of all city area.

Pittsburgh by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 12.6%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 11%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $2,833

#9: San Diego, California

San Diego is ideal for families that want to prioritize outdoor time—over 20% of the city's area is parkland. Childcare costs are on the more expensive side compared to many cities on our list, taking up 12.5% of median family incomes. Teens, however, won't have to pay exorbitant insurance premiums, which average just over $2,817 for six months.

San Diego by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 20.9
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 12.5%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $2,817

#10: Virginia Beach, Virginia

While only 11.4% of Virginia Beach is devoted to parkland, there are also 51 pedestrian beach access locations for families to explore. The area also has one of the country's lowest child care rates compared to income, accounting for just under 10%. Teen auto insurance premiums are slightly higher than those in other areas on our list, coming in at $3,076 for a six-month policy.

Virginia Beach by the numbers

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area: 11.4%
  • Annual childcare costs as a share of median family income: 9.8%
  • Average six-month car insurance premium for teens: $3,076

The 10 Worst U.S. Cities for Families

Which cities didn't perform as well? Here are the 10 worst cities based on the same factors as above.

  1. Hartford, Connecticut
  2. Providence, Rhode Island
  3. Detroit, Michigan
  4. Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
  5. Denver, Colorado
  6. Milwaukee, Wisconsin
  7. Orlando, Florida
  8. Seattle, Washington
  9. Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
  10. Buffalo, New York

Methodology

The Zebra pulled three data points to analyze the top 50 MSAs (by population) in the U.S. related to family life and expenses. County data was substituted for certain categories and Indianapolis, Indiana was removed due to lack of data.

  • Parkland as a percentage of city area[1]
  • Childcare prices as a share of median family income, using toddler center-based care[2]
  • Average car insurance price for teens
Sources
  1. Park Score. [Trust for Public Land]

  2. National Database of Childcare Prices. [U.S. Department of Labor]