How much does a funeral cost? A complete breakdown

Funeral costs by state

Although the national median price of a funeral is nearly $8,000, costs can fluctuate based on your location. To help you estimate the cost of a funeral where you live, we’ve broken down the median burial and cremation costs by state for 2021.

Funeral costs to know

What exactly makes up the cost of a funeral? There are a number of services that factor into the overall cost. According to the National Funeral Directors Association, the price of a funeral and burial has risen by nearly 8% in the past five years. As such, each individual funeral expense has also seen an increase in price, with the exception of service vehicles, which stayed the same cost. To see a breakdown of all the common costs involved in a funeral, check out our list of services and average prices below.

Can life insurance cover funeral costs?

You or your loved ones can ensure that funeral costs will be taken care of by purchasing a life insurance policy. As long as the monthly premiums are paid, the beneficiaries of the policy will receive financial compensation in the form of the death benefit after the policyholder passes. The money that comes from the death benefit can be used to pay for funeral costs or any other outstanding debts, helping to ease any financial burden.

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Other ways to pay for a funeral

Life insurance is only one way to pay for a funeral, although it does typically offer a bigger payout to help cover expenses and is accessible promptly. Find alternative payment options for funerals listed below.

• Final expense or burial insurance: This type of insurance offers a benefit that is meant to cover any funeral, medical or legal expenses that a beneficiary may be left with after a loved one’s death. This is often a much more affordable insurance option compared to life insurance and may be more accessible than life insurance for elderly individuals. It’s important to note that the benefit for final expense insurance will be significantly less than a life insurance benefit.
• Payable-on-death (POD) account: A POD account is a specialized savings account that is meant for funeral costs. You can designate someone to have control over the account after you pass, and they will have immediate access to the funds upon showing a valid death certificate.
• Savings account: A traditional savings account can also be used to put away money for your future funeral costs. Keep in mind that this savings account will be regarded as part of your estate, so the probate process may delay access to these funds after your pass.^[2]

Know your rights under The Funeral Rule

Planning a funeral for yourself or a loved one is an emotional experience, and it’s important to not get taken advantage of in the process. The Federal Trade Commission introduced “the Funeral Rule,” which outlines an individual’s rights to only purchase whatever goods and services they need or want for a funeral.^[3] We’ve broken down each individual right under the Funeral Rule so that you can familiarize yourself when funeral planning.

Rights under the Funeral Rule:

• Only purchase funeral arrangements that you want
• Obtain price information over the phone without disclosing personal information
• Obtain an itemized General Price List when visiting a funeral home
• View a written casket price list prior to viewing caskets
• View a written outer burial container price list
• Receive a written statement of what you are buying, each itemized cost and the total cost prior to purchase
• Be provided a written explanation of any legal crematory or cemetery requirements that may require you to buy funeral goods or services
• Use a different container other than a casket for cremation
• Provide your own urn or casket that you purchased elsewhere at no additional cost
• Forgo embalming when making funeral arrangements

Questions to ask a funeral home

Once you know your funeral rights, here’s a list of questions to exercise when necessary:

• May I request a copy of your General Price List to see the cost of your goods and services?
• If the casket, urn and outer burial container prices aren’t included in your General Price List, may I also request a list of prices for those items?
• What are my options regarding viewing, cremation, embalming, memorial services and types of funerals?
• What options do you have for payment?
• Do you work with insurance companies for payment?
• Do you work with final expense or burial insurance?

How to keep funeral costs down

Even if you or your loved one enrolled in a life insurance policy to help pay for the funeral, it’s still important to set a budget for your expenses. To help prevent both financial and emotional overspending, try some of the tips detailed below.

Get price lists from multiple funeral homes

As with any big purchase, you’ll want to shop around for funeral services. In the same way that you’d get multiple dealer quotes when buying a car, it’s smart to contact several funeral homes and ask for price lists from each.

Funeral homes are required by law to give you this information if you request it, so make sure you’re exercising this right. Once you’ve gathered your options, you can compare prices and choose whichever goods and services are the most affordable for you.

Opt for cremation

When it comes to funeral services, cremation is typically cheaper than a burial. If you or the person you’re planning for don’t have a preference, opting for cremation can help save hundreds of dollars depending on where your funeral is located.

Shop for your own urn or casket

The key to keeping your funeral costs low is to compare prices not only for funeral services, but for goods like an urn or casket, too. You have every right to purchase a casket or urn from a third party and request that your funeral home use it instead of buying one that doesn’t fit your needs or budget. By shopping for your own funeral items, you or your family can save thousands of dollars while also creating a memorable and meaningful experience for your loved ones.

Forgo embalming

Not all states require routine embalming, so you can eliminate this cost altogether by forgoing embalming. Embalming costs about $800 on average, so you can choose refrigeration as a preservation method or skip preservation and opt for immediate burial or cremation. Keep in mind that some states will require embalming if the deceased is not cremated or buried within a certain time frame, but this is not a requirement everywhere.

Use a private residence for the memorial service

Funeral homes charge you for services and staff if you use their facilities for a viewing or memorial. Instead of purchasing these services, a cheaper and more meaningful alternative would be to have your memorial at a private residence.

If you’re able to, pick a private place that has meaning and hold the funeral ceremony there. After the ceremonies have taken place, the funeral home will take care of the burial. You can also save money by using easily personalized memorial service program templates via Canva or Etsy.

Look into government benefits

Depending on eligibility, you may be entitled to government benefits to contribute toward funeral expenses. Look into the following benefits to see if you qualify for funeral assistance.

• Military benefits: Surviving family of a servicemember may receive a burial allowance of up to $300 for a non-service-related death or up to $2,000 for a service-related death.^[4]
• Social Security benefits: A surviving spouse or child may be eligible to receive a lump-sum payment of $255 after a loved one’s death.^[5]
• FEMA assistance: For those that have lost a family member due to COVID-19, FEMA is providing funeral assistance. Please check eligibility requirements before applying.^[6]

Consider an eco-friendly burial

Choosing a green burial or funeral is another way to save money and reduce your impact on the Earth at the end of your life. The median price for a biodegradable casket is $1,500 — thousands of dollars cheaper than a wooden or metal one.^[1] If you’re interested in this type of funeral, you can look for green funeral items, cemeteries or funeral homes on the Green Burial Council’s website.^[7]

What to do if you can’t afford a funeral

The cost of a funeral in today’s world is rising, and it’s an expense that can come as a shock to loved ones who are grieving. A low-cost funeral option for many families is either a direct burial or cremation. These options mean that the deceased is buried or cremated immediately, with no embalming. Because of the nature of these funerals, no visitation is possible. A direct burial or cremation will be several thousands of dollars cheaper than a traditional type of funeral.